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Straight Kinksters at Pride?

Posted by Nancy Hartunian

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We start the show with two calls concerning the “post nut” state of mind. One man hates that he becomes selfish and unresponsive so much that he chooses not to come at all. Another wonders if we should start calling it “post-nut confusion.” Just in time for Pride, it’s a new After-Action Report! Hear the … Read More »

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Had To Getaway

Posted by Tracey Cataldo

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Dear Readers: I’m at a family event — a happy one — this week. This column originally appeared in July 2013. Back with a new Savage Love next week. — Dan I’m a 26-year-old straight female. I’m writing because I need to ask someone what to think right now. I just fucked a guy while … Read More »

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STRUGGLE SESSION: Draft Next Week

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Venn: Grab quote. I’ve talked about this on the show… more than once, too much according to some commenters. I do not believe (and have not “insisted”) that sexual orientation is exclusively about attraction to gender. What I’ve said… to thread this needled… and in recognition the validity of the gay identities of the gay … Read More »

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The Boyfriend Experience

Posted by Tracey Cataldo

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My boyfriend went on a trip abroad with his friend (also a guy). After he came back, he showed me that he made a Bumble profile while he was there. I didn’t feel like anything was off or ask him to show me; he volunteered. He said that he was just curious to see how … Read More »

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With Trans Comedian Nico Carney

Posted by Nancy Hartunian

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When she was in high school, she surprised herself and delighted her boyfriend by squirting all over his face. But the incident alarmed her enough to set off a neurotic need to pee before every sexual encounter. How can she get out of her head about it, and allow for spontaneity in her current, awesome … Read More »

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STRUGGLE SESSION: Calling In Sick…

Posted by Dan Savage

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There are so many great comments about this week’s column and podcast — confronting cologne addicts! sending nude pics! humiliating hung guys! — but I’m still COVID’s bitch and I don’t have the energy to respond. I’m so sorry! But I am gonna share a letter that just came in just now and invite you … Read More »

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